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September 27th, 2012, 01:20 PM
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Originally Posted by mom2more View Post
Hubby tried to go that route a few years ago and the state place would not take an appointment. They wanted us to drive into the city and just sit and wait all day to get seen. Just a PITA.
Yeah, sounds like a PITA. It's the same way here, but I guess in the end it would be worth it to me.


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Hubby has tried to do what is in the best interests of the kids and let them have somewhat of a relationship with bm, though she has put them through one roller coaster ride of emotions after another. But some say that she is their bm and we just have to keep letting her try?
Well, I meant in this instance. I wouldn't send them to her and pay for half of the travel. If she wants to travel to you to see them, then I would allow that. I would allow phone contact, but I certainly wouldn't be footing the bill for them to travel to her when she doesn't have any court ordered access to them and hasn't paid a nickel of support since he's had them.
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