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September 29th, 2012, 07:50 PM
DoriansMommy DoriansMommy is offline
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Location: Johannesburg, South Africa
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Hello everyone.
I'm just going to get right to the story. My fiance has a 1 year old son who we just got full custody of as the mother was not feeding him properly, sold all of his toys and belongings, not taking proper care of him.. etc.. thus he was removed from her custody.
The child is now living with us, I've been his mommy figure..

She texts my fiance saying we must tell the child that she was only a surrogate and that if one day he wants to find her, he may, but she will no longer be around. And that he must know that I am his mommy now, and that she was artificially inseminated...

She wants nothing to do with the poor child. This lady has 3 children - different fathers - all were taken from her..

What should I do? Should we go on telling him that I am mommy? Should we tell him I am only step mommy? I'm confused. My fiance wants him to look at me as mommy.. I already look at him as my own son.. but I don't know the right way to go about this without messing with his head..

tips?
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