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October 3rd, 2012, 06:28 AM
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Originally Posted by Mama.Angie View Post
It's an interesting read. I don't disagree with what is being said, I don't think I'd put it that way for my own life though. Not quite. The way my DH and myself see things is that family comes first, but that means all of us. Us, and the kids. Within that, we put our own relationship and love as sort of a foundation for our kids, it holds our family together so to speak. It shows our kids the example of how we want them to be in a relationship one day, how they deserve to be treated and loved. Does that make sense? I haven't had my coffee this morning... Anyhow, I liked the read, thanks for sharing.
This. Exactly.

I don't think that Neely's needs come before the needs of my children, but if Neely and I aren't doing well as a couple the rest of our family suffers. I think what she is talking about is not physical, tangible needs of the husband over the children, but making your relationship a priority because in the end, it is the foundation that the rest of the family needs.
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