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October 8th, 2012, 07:48 PM
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Hazel Hazel is offline
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Your choice of words is judgemental and negative and insulting. If you say something that can be deemed controversial, you should be prepared to have people disagree with you. I disagree with your stance on harnesses and the implications you make with your statements that it is like walking a dog and that you only see kids with behavior problems using them. And yes, your final statement that even with many children you have managed not to lose any is judgemental and does imply that you are better. Words have power and if anyone chooses unwisely they often have to face the consequences. If the judginess coming across in your post was not your intention then perhaps in future you may want to pay closer attention to HOW you say things. The fact that several of us have taken offense might be a sign to re-evaluate your word choices.

BTW, I don't see anyone trying to make you leave, just trying to get you to realize your post is rubbing people the wrong way. If someone privately messaged you with something harsh, that should not be placed on all of the posters on this board. One person does not equal an entire group.
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