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November 20th, 2012, 01:37 PM
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We split the holidays when applicable. DH is always gone for Easter, working out of State. He cannot look after Reme while he's working, so visitation just is not possible (he works 12 hrs a day, and lives in a hotel most of the time). So L always gets Easter.

We split Thanksgiving most years, this year he's going to His Nan and Paps because I have to work at midnight on Thanksgiving day, and this way we can all get our shopping done with out playing tag team in toys r us like last year. We will get him Friday afternoon after I've had a nap (or DH will get him WHILE I nap).

We also split Christmas. L gets him Eve and Morning. We get him around 2pm after he's eaten.

We split new years eve last year, we had him until Supper Time, then he ran in the new year with his Mom. I have no idea what will happen this year, we play it by ear.

DH is entitled to have Reme every other holiday every other year, but in reality, we live 5 miles from L's house, and it's not worth the fighting. If things ever get patchy, he'll start enforcing the order.. but at the moment.. this way works best for Reme.. and that's who is important.
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