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December 12th, 2012, 01:12 PM
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Hi there, and welcome!
I'm sorry you're feeling so pins-and-needles about this pregnancy, but I totally understand. With my current pregnancy I felt like I was pretty much just waiting to lose it like the last one until I think about 12 weeks, by then I had passed my loss date and had a couple of ultrasounds. Slowly I started to feel more optimistic about it. I still have freakout times where I think my boobs are deflating, or my stomach looks smaller. At this point I'm starting to feel baby moving regularly so it helps a LOT. Some women feel discouraged the whole pregnancy, and don't get excited until they're holding that baby in their arms. Whatever your feelings are, I wouldn't feel guilty about it, try to stay positive but don't beat yourself up if you are feeling that sense of impending doom. A loss really does change you. And it's sad to feel so scared, but you also have plenty of time to bond with your little one after the delivery. We all just do the best we can!
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