Issues with incontinence after VBAC?
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December 14th, 2012, 07:10 AM
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Yes, I imagine getting that baby off of your bladder will help a LOT!
I actually had a wonderful c-section experience...probably as good as it gets. I'd still choose the VBAC
I know this isn't what you asked, but I will share briefly another reason...
With the c-section, there was a bit of a disconnect for me with the birth. I know that my little girl came out of me, but I couldn't see it. DH watched over the curtain and described every gory detail, but I felt like birth was something happening to me, not something I was participating in. I don't know exactly how to describe it except that I just felt like something was missing...I couldn't connect all the dots between being pregnant and being a Mommy. The VBAC was totally different...I felt every moment and my journey felt very complete after the babies were born. The doctors were there to help us, but
did it...I'm so glad that I was able to experience that.
Melissa & DH
IVF babies Claire (5), Abigail (3) and George (3)
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