New here HOW many times have you heard "Was it planned?"
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January 13th, 2013, 01:07 AM
Join Date: Jan 2013
Hi there, New here!
I am 33, I have 2 girls aged 10 and 12.
Now pg with #3 (boy due july 15th)<-planned
Yes, I have had people approach me who have heard that I am pg and actually say "Oh, is it good or bad news?"
I reply "Oh yes this was planned"
I can understand peoples curiosity...but where did peoples manners disappear to? "Was it planned"
What difference does it make, would they send commiserations if so?
My story is, I always wanted another child but dh and I were not in a position to, both with work etc. Finally 10 years later, we were good to go
My 12 year old dd is happy but my 10 year old dd isnt impressed with sibling rivalry already.
I have tried to involve her in everything, shes getting there but still semi resistant
I need to read some books on this "how to settle in" period with them
anyway nice to meet you
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