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February 20th, 2013, 08:55 AM
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We've been pretty blunt and honest with people because I want to make them aware. I don't tell anyone during, but we've flat out said that we just can't afford to have kids right now due to the costs of treatments, and that it's no ones business as to when that happens unless they are willing to foot the bill.

When we were using donor sperm, we weren't hiding it, but not making it public. It's something we will obviously have to tell a child at some point if we end up using a donor again, but we'll be more selective about that
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2006-2013 6+ years of NTNP, TTC, TTCMA, Losses, Surgeries, and Diagnoses.
RPL and Genetic Tests came back 100% normal | Endo, PCOS, severe MFI
Multiple early losses between 3 and 8 weeks.

Broken in heart, mind, and body. On a break until Summer 2014






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