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March 3rd, 2013, 01:50 PM
mom2many2010 mom2many2010 is offline
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I didn't really read the other replies, but I would also not be happy. Something like that should have been discussed with you before hand. By your DD....who is, in my book, ultimately the most responsible, and should hold the bulk of the repercussions, and by the other parent.

If you know the other parents well enough invite mom over for some coffee and discuss with her what happened, and how you feel about it. Again, your DD holds the most responsibility here, she knew exactly how you would feel about it and chose to not tell you. The other mom is fine with it, and that is her right, but your DD should have said "no, way, my mom would kill me".

Also time to sit down with DD and very clearly spell out your expectations of her, and what will happen if she breaks those rules.
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