Topic: On the edge
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March 19th, 2013, 01:40 PM
Seasaidh Seasaidh is offline
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The answer is in if you feel ready. This will change your trajectory completely - are you ready to invest everything in a little one or are there still investments you need to make in yourself before you can do that? I had my first at 20-21, and I was not mentally prepared for it, and it was very difficult for me and everyone around me - it's something that still affects me 10 years later, but this is my experience; yours will be different.

Only you can know if you are ready and willing. Children deserve healthy parents that have enough spare (mental, material, etc) resources to care for them. I believe you are capable of making it work if you're ready to, but no one who isn't wearing your shoes can make a better judgement as to whether that's the case.
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