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March 19th, 2013, 01:50 PM
Seasaidh Seasaidh is offline
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A lot of people will tell you that "life" is the "right decision". The right decision is internal to you - it depends on your situation, your needs, your experiences. You need to be able to handle what's coming down the chutes and if that precludes having a baby right now, then you may choose to wait. If, on the other hand, you really WANT to have the baby or you think it would be too much emotional pain to terminate, then the answer is to have the baby and put everything you've got into raising it well.

Everyone has an answer that is based on how they see the world. The way I see it: you and this child are the ones affected by this decision and no one can rightfully tell you what you need to do because no one has your perspective or knowledge of the situation. Examine your situation, search your heart, and perhaps seek the counsel of a family planning professional who will withhold judgement or opinions and support you with facts and options. Make an educated and rational decision if possible to optimize the outcome for yourself and those directly involved.
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