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March 24th, 2013, 03:24 PM
Adrienne214 Adrienne214 is offline
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I didn't know I was pregnant and went to the ER to find out I was pregnant and losing the baby at the same time. I almost lost my life. It's been 2 months and I'm having trouble putting it behind me. It seems like people think that because I didn't know I was pg and since it was ectopic that it isn't really a loss. I pretty much just try to think about it like it was a medical condition, not a baby that I lost at 8 weeks. But then the reality of the loss sets in and I don't know how to handle it or how I should feel about it. Like in my mind the baby never existed but then I know it did. I just don't know how to think about it or how to feel. I know some of you have lost babies early in pregnancy and I'm just wondering if you could share how you've healed. I have two healthy little girls and we are starting to think about TTC a third but I'm scared and I know I need to completely heal from this loss first.
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