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March 30th, 2013, 01:37 PM
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oh no! How awful!!! How dare she!
I can't imagine how you feel right now. I would be so upset. I'm sorry.

I expected infertility to be hard on my marriage...but I didn't expect it to bother some of my friendships. My very best friend ended up accidently pregnant at 39 last year. I had already been trying so hard for three years. She and her boyfriend weren't even sure they'd keep it, but they did. I have to say that as hard as I tried, I couldn't be as close to her as I was before. I know she felt bad, so she didn't ask me to do anything. So I felt completely left out on top of jealous and sad and guilty about being jealous. It was really hard, and still things aren't the same.
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I never knew until that moment how badly it could hurt to lose something you never really had. - Missed Miscarriage at 10 weeks - 3/26
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