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March 30th, 2013, 02:37 PM
Mega Super Mommy
Join Date: Jul 2009
Location: Upstate, NY
oh no! How awful!!! How dare she!
I can't imagine how you feel right now. I would be so upset.
I expected infertility to be hard on my marriage...but I didn't expect it to bother some of my friendships. My very best friend ended up accidently pregnant at 39 last year. I had already been trying so hard for three years. She and her boyfriend weren't even sure they'd keep it, but they did. I have to say that as hard as I tried, I couldn't be as close to her as I was before. I know she felt bad, so she didn't ask me to do anything. So I felt completely left out on top of jealous and sad and guilty about being jealous. It was really hard, and still things aren't the same.
Susan, dh Tom, dd Megan (14), ds Marcus (12), Our new baby Dean
I never knew until that moment how badly it could hurt to lose something you never really had. - Missed Miscarriage at 10 weeks - 3/26
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