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April 2nd, 2013, 10:12 AM
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Originally Posted by nameetog View Post
That is the problem with a planned section. I kinda wish I didn't have to tell a few certain people WHEN it is. I mean I love my sister I do but she has zero ability to have any kind of boundaries (along with a few other family members). With my son I had to tell her I would refuse to call her if she didn't stop hounding me, NO you aren't coming in the room. She was waiting in the waiting room before I was out of surgery and I hadn't even gone into recovery yet. I have point blank said this time I'm asking nurses to send people away so don't bother because it IS a locked unit yanno. It makes me angry that I can't be the one to decide when and who and how many people come parading into my room. MY family, MY decision. UGH. I really just want the ability to have my kids meet their sibling and oh IDK maybe get like the catheter out and or have a shower or something before I have to entertain people
That whole issue bugs me. I would never presume that it was ok to waltz into someones room while they're in labor or recovering from delivery, whether that be vaginal or c-section. I feel like a family should have some space to do their thing first...unless they've specifically said otherwise.
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