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April 3rd, 2013, 01:21 PM
daolive14 daolive14 is offline
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I find myself weighing the "what-if" versus the "what-could-be" and TTC always wins. We were not trying for another with our first loss, but it solidified, for me, how much I want another child - I see another child in our family. Before the losses, I worried about ages/spacing, when would their birthday be, etc. and now I know that I just don't care about any of that. It's a feeling that is hard to put in to words, and now the actual "trying" and having setbacks and I still question "do I do this?" It is such a very personal decision and the path is different for everyone. I regret more the things that i have not done in life than the things that i have done and I feel that way about TTC right now. So I guess my best advice is follow your heart and see where it leads you. All the best to you!
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me - D (39)
DH - T (45)
DS - 6 DD - 4
10/2012 (7weeks)
1/2013 (8 weeks)
10/2013 (11 weeks, trisomy 21)

IVF#1 - June '14
24 eggs, 18 mature, 10 fertilized with ICSI
4 blasts sent for PGS, 2 chromosomal normal boys

IVF #2 - September '14
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