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April 28th, 2013, 10:56 AM
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I'm sorry you are stressing out.. I am not going to track down my BD because I don't know him but I do know he is too rough and violent (from the short time I met him) and he does not work or will he ever (its complicated) so I will never get a penny from him either.. I've had friends get on me at first when I told them I was not going to try to go out of my way to find him. They all said things like "he deserves to know" but they don't understand what he's done.. I didn't feel pressured to do it and lost one friend over it but I feel so much better doing it myself than exposing a child to that. I know it is a different situation.. But don't let people judge you into telling him.. However, if you ever want financial support or your child to know their father, it might be best to tell him sooner than later so he can adjust to the thought and maybe even arrange for school locally so he can be there for his child's life if he wants to. Ultimately it is your choice, though.
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