How to cope with not conceiving yet and hating your job at the same time?
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May 2nd, 2013, 08:22 AM
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You don't reward a kid for misbehaving and be all lovey dovey with them. I do talk to them about things and have the oldest tell me what he should have done or said. No matter what I do he whines every single day and more then a few times. I've watched plenty of kids and know how its done. With them for 45+ hrs a week.
It's not rewarding them it's offering compassion. I have a degree in early childhood and specialize in behavioral development, worked MANY years with parents and children with behavior problems before I choose to stay at home with and have two kids of my own. That's ok, I must not know what I'm talking about
If you hate your job leave but please dont think that you will never deal with your own child whining because you wont "allow it". It doesnt work like that. Also you may be a nanny 45 hours a week, I am a mom 168 hours a week. A lot can happen in those extra 123 hours you are not with them.
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