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May 5th, 2013, 07:43 AM
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Oh, I'm so sorry this is the case. I have to be honest that it's important you are honest with him. If you can't consider adoption, then it's not something you would tell him you are willing to consider. He may need all of the time to wrap his head around the fact that he is going to be a father, whether or not he chooses to step up to that magnificent role.

You are in a very tough situation, but you know how much you love this baby already and what choices you've already considered and tossed. You know you better than anyone.

Do what is right for you. It may hurt for him to turn away, but you still have support. You still have a tummy full of love. You still have your strength, wits and heart. Be frank. Plan for the worst, but hope for the best.
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