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May 5th, 2013, 09:49 AM
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I don't think anyone is trying to be negative. But I agree with the other ladies, telling him you will consider something that you really won't actually consider is only going to end up worse. You asked for our opinions on that, and that is what we think. In a situation like this, it's best to be upfront about what you will and won't do. The fact that he talked you into an abortion once, that you regret, leads me to believe that this relationship isn't a good one. Especially since you waited to tell him this time so he wouldn't be able to do it again.

It sounds like the negativity is coming from him, and it's negativity that you don't need.

Maybe make a list about the good and positive things that he brings to the relationship, and put it up next to the list of negatives you've already listed here. See how they weigh against each other.

Sometimes the best thing to do, though, is just let go.
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