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May 5th, 2013, 09:59 AM
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Oh... it sounds like he doesn't have a good record in the baby-department How sad for someone (him) to be so nonchalant about things like this, and then leave the weight on the shoulders of the women and the children. I am sure he has his good side, or you wouldn't be afraid to see what his true reaction will be, but it also sounds like he has a lot to learn or that he doesn't want to change who he is.

Whatever you choose, I hope it all works out for you. Right now, it's hard to see that things could be better if he does back out and you do this on your own, but I've seen it happen and the women are amazing moms who don't need the negativity those men brought to their lives. However, if he chooses to finally step up, I certainly wish you both the best and hope it all works out
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