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May 6th, 2013, 12:46 PM
islandbaby islandbaby is offline
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I'm 35 and just had a missed miscarriage two months ago. It was very hard for me at first, after the loss, because the pregnancy hadn't been planned at all so it wasn't just as easy as going back to ttc again. It took a lot of talking. At first my husband said the same thing...not wanting to ttc, but not preventing it from happening either. At my age, I told him, I can't afford to play games like that. I know I mentioned my age, but I know how I felt ttc my second daughter when I was 27 and even though I knew I was young enough, there was nothing else I thought about for months and when you want something so badly, time has a different meaning, so even though you are still in your 20's I can totally understand how you feel.

Like I said, with my husband, it took a lot of talking and explaining my thoughts, feelings, reasons etc.

I can completely understand how difficult this must feel for you! We are all here for you, anytime, to chat, vent, ask for advice etc...

Lots of hugs to you!!!
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