When the dad says STOP....
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May 15th, 2013, 01:34 AM
Join Date: May 2013
i'm 34 and i have 4 childrens (12,10, 5 and 3 years old). I live in France and i would want mom's testimonies about my little problem...
I want a 5th baby but my darling don't want an other chid. For 1 year, i try to make him change opinion with alls arguments i can (we loves each other, we have a bedroom for a 5th, we have no problem of money....etc).
Since january, it's difficult for me because i think about my desire for baby Intensely.
I take the decision to remove my sterilet, my rendez vous is tomorrow. Of course i said it to my darling. He answered me Calmly "you know that i don't want an other baby... i don't know how can i tell you: Stop, 4 it's good".
i said him: "me, i want a baby so i stop my contraception; if you doesn't enlarge the family, so put a protection, YOU".
Are there mums in the same case, the dads have they been easy to convince????
Do you think I am wrong to stop my contraception without his agreement?
I would just add a thing: this baby is certainly my last one of my life. I already miss him...
Thank you for testimonies....
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