Need some advice please
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June 24th, 2013, 07:09 AM
Join Date: Dec 2012
Wow! Being selfish at our age is a normal thing but to think of giving your unborn baby up for adoption because of the situation you feel you are facing and you want more for your child is not selfish! It is a selfLESS act for your baby and you would be blessing a family too that for whatever reasons cannot have one of their own. That is not selfish!
(I understand what it's like to need/want a baby so bad and not be able to make it happen -- it stinks!)
I think sometimes the initial shock of things make us think we cannot handle what in reality we can and be successful. It's a scary thing to think about because you have your ideas of what you want for your future but sometimes those things change a little for a time and then you achieve them a little later and can look back and see, well this happened for a reason or this wouldn't have happened if that hadnt happened. You just never know. You have time to make a decision and it may change from day to day right now. Give yourself some time to deal with the thoughts and emotions that come with bring pregnant.
But know if you are comfortable with the idea of adoption, there is nothing wrong with that. There are blessings that come with that in more ways than one!
Good luck to you.
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