View Single Post
  #1  
July 1st, 2013, 12:36 PM
AtomicMama's Avatar
AtomicMama AtomicMama is offline
CopperBoom!
Join Date: May 2008
Location: MI
Posts: 14,754
DH and I have been talking about/planning to TTC next spring/early summer. My brother and his wife (with whom we are very close) are planning to TTC around the same time (possibly a little earlier). Would this bother you? I'd like to postpone our TTC until after they are pregnant to separate the babies a little bit, but DH thinks I'm silly for planning our family around other people. This will be my brother/SIL's first child, though, and I really want to be able to be there for them and focus on them. DH and I each have a child from a previous relationship, so while this will be our first together, it will be the third child in our family. Also, selfishly, I want my parents to be able to come out and spend some time with us once the baby is born. If we have our baby at the same time as my brother/SIL, they won't be able to come. What would you guys do?
__________________
Amy: Wife to my Handsome Husband Mommy to my superhero, Max (3) and Luckiest Bonus Mama to Sammy (5)

Reply With Quote