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July 3rd, 2013, 10:45 AM
Mega Super Mommy
Join Date: Nov 2012
Location: Mississauga, Ontario
We waited 8 days this time. I didn't have any tearing and the bleeding had already stopped by that point. It didn't feel painful or uncomfortable at all, it felt really really really good. He did mention that things felt a little different, but left it at that. For me, it felt the same as it felt pre-baby...so I don't think it's like a huge gaping hole down there...lol.
After DD was born we waited about 2 weeks, because I had a very minor tear. The first few times it was slightly uncomfortable (going slow and using lube were musts) but not painful.
Everyone is different though. Listen to your body. If your body says "stop" then do so, and don't let your DH make you feel bad about it. You have to be ready physically as well as mentally and emotionally.
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