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October 11th, 2013, 12:17 PM
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Thank you for being so kind and caring to her in her time of grief. I agree with the others in not pushing her to talk about it but letting her know that you are there and that you recognize that they are your grandbabies and her children.

For me, hearing that it was "God's plan" from my MIL really ticked me off. (Even back when I was more religious.) I didn't want to hear that God chose to kill my babies while letting my child-abusing, druggie brother father nine.

One thing my mom has done for me is to make sure I know she thinks of them/remembers them around Christmas and Mother's Day. I think out of everything, that has meant the most to me.
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