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October 19th, 2013, 07:41 AM
random567 random567 is offline
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I think the refocusing from the only having to take care of me to include a baby in the plans if very scary. I am in the process of doing this and I struggle every day.

We were surprised and at four months in we are struggling with the changes. We race motorcycles and it is worse for me because right now I do not have the option of riding and he still does. It is hard to give up the way of life you've become accustomed too and that you had planned for yourself. I find myself easily frustrated and very upset over the changes. I really wasn't ready and hadn't planning on giving this part of my life up and now the choice has been taken from me and worse yet I have to watch him still enjoying something that we both like to do.

I guess for me it boils down to accepting that I am going to be a little angry and resentful and learning how to deal with that and find the good in the changes. The good thing is that you have someone very substantial on the way that will need all of your attention.
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