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October 19th, 2013, 08:20 AM
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I was going to say throw it all away too. Everything. Or if you don't want to throw it away, then bag it up and put it away until they have earned it back, one item at a time.

Only reward the child who deserves it. If you were going to get ice cream, only the dd who helps out gets it. Everyone else.....oh freakin well. If I go to work and don't do my job, I don't get a raise, or bonuses. Hell, I might get fired. So do NOT reward a child who doesn't do their "job."

I also agree with homework, chores, THEN what they would like to do. Or just dinner and bed.

Trust and believe it will be a LOT of work for awhile until they get the hang of it. There will be good days and bad days.
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