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November 1st, 2013, 02:47 PM
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Join Date: Aug 2008
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I wish I'd searched your post history earlier, as I usually do to make sure I know the entire story. This was your post in the welcome center, your first post on JM:
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Originally Posted by serena.j View Post
Hello. I found this site earlier and decided why not. My own son is grown and married, but he and his wife are having trouble with pregnancy. She has miscarried a few times. Anything to help, I guess, even if she doesn't want it. I hope everyone is having a nice day.
You knew even then that she didn't want help, but yet you still continue to try and force your way into their grief. Let them be. Stop being a voyeur into their pain and let them deal. You want to truly help? send them a nice big fat check and tell them that you want them to use the money however they see fit- fertility treatments, adoption, or a nice vacation to let them have some time to just be.
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2006-2013 6+ years of NTNP, TTC, TTCMA, Losses, Surgeries, and Diagnoses.
RPL and Genetic Tests came back 100% normal | Endo, PCOS, severe MFI
Multiple early losses between 3 and 8 weeks.

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