How do you decide when you are done?
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November 12th, 2013, 10:49 AM
October 2012 PR Co-Host
Join Date: Mar 2012
I seriously cannot decide if I am done having more children. As I said in the other thread, I'm 32 and would want to have any future pregnancies happen before 35. DH is tired and doesn't want more, but isn't quite confident enough to get a vasectomy. We both worry a lot about babies while they are young, especially newborns, and wouldn't look forward to doing that again. I think if I didn't have anxiety issues (at times - not all the time), I would probably want one more for sure. However, I can see that dh is stressed, tired, and wanting to just relax now that ours are older. He is happy with the four that we have (the oldest two are not biologically his, but he raised them since they were 1 and 3 years old). Not sure what to do.
How do you decide? I'm sure we've talked about this before, but dh and I are making more concrete decisions now, so I need to talk about it again!
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