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November 13th, 2013, 10:14 PM
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I always wanted two. DH always waffled between 2 and 3, and if he had it his way, we would probably try for one more. But he also knows how physically and emotionally taxing it was for me, going through two miscarriages and then a pregnancy with Jamison that was not easy. When push comes to shove, we truly are done. We are ready to be out from under the medical bills, and on the financial upswing. We have friends younger than us who still plan to have more babies, so we can live vicariously through them. It is a hard door to close, and I think it is totally natural to feel those twinges of desire for a baby every one in awhile. But I think I knew for sure that I was done when I would have one of those twinges, and then would realize that it was a desire to be around a newborn, not necessarily to have it be my own, or to add to our family.
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