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November 17th, 2013, 04:43 PM
MIL2lissy8 MIL2lissy8 is offline
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i am sorry for your need to make this decision. my counsel would be to continue the pregnancy and maybe consider an open adoption. that is a win-win. i would also counsel you to NOT have a relationship with an abusive guy. in a few years, he'd have visitation and how do you know he would not hurt the child in a fit of anger or whatever? if you re-read your post, you can clearly see that you have enough negatives to this relationship to not go back. really, i hope you will consider the adoption route - so many parents are out there waiting. God bless you.

ps: i have had two unplanned pregnancies. i kept mine and struggled to make it work, ended up in a bad abusive marriage that ended with child abuse on his part, so i do know what i am talking about. i hope you can find answers that work for you.
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