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December 27th, 2013, 06:54 PM
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i think if you COULD plan for everything, life would be boring.

i know having a baby will completely turn your life upside down. financially, emotionally, physically, mentally, spiritually.. in every way imaginable, you will change. mine is only three weeks old and i can tell you right now i was not the girl i was this time last year. i'm not even the same girl who went in for the induction.

i will say this in the most polite way i can: screw your mom. you are an adult, this is your life, your child, your future. what do YOU want? what do YOU think is right or wrong for you? what kind of life do YOU see yourself having?

every single one of us on this board- those who had their babies, those who lost them, those who gave them up and those who had abortions- we all had plans. and every single one of us had them go awry at some point. that's why we have plan b's (and plan c's, and plan d's). obviously, it is too late for your plan a. you forfeited that when you got pregnant. now you need to figure out your plan b.
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