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February 5th, 2014, 12:50 PM
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At 35, you and your partner should be taking precautions to not become pregnant if you're not ready/wanting. Don't put your body through more trauma because he just doesn't want to have a more children. Do what YOU want to do. It's your body.

With that being said, there is ALWAYS a way to financially support a family/child.

There are programs, and you can budget. Seriously, if you go the breastfeeding route, either by pumping or otherwise, you have plenty of time to save money/get on programs to help fee the child.

My partners income varies depending on the time of year with HVAC, some months he can bring in $4k-$5k, other times, $1200.

You're baby will need to start weaning from breastmilk/formula eventually. Rather than spending $1.00+ go out and buy the fruits and veggies and prepare their meal ahead of time.

Instead of wasting money on disposable diapers, buy cloth.

These things MAY take more time out of your day, but they're not unmanagebale, ans safer/healthier in the long run.
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