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March 10th, 2014, 07:58 AM
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Last night DH and I had a family event to attend. We've been doing a pretty good job avoiding large groups of family members who all know what we have been dealing with. Well last night, it was unavoidable. It went pretty well for the most part, but I received a lot of sympathetic looks and multiple people asking "are you ok"... I want to say "no." But I answer "oh yeah, I'm fine". Then they ask "well did y'all have a good vacation" where I wish I could respond "no, it was the worst few days of my life...it happens to be the time I found out my IUI failed"... But of course I say "yeah! We enjoyed it!"

Then the advice rolls in....
"You know, my daughters had the same problem and I told them to relax, and when they finally listened to me, they were pregnant in 2 months!"
AND
"If you want to get pregnant, you're going to need to put on some weight"
AND
"Why don't y'all try just enjoying each other and not think about it?"


Ugh I have a headache.
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Stopped BCP & began TTC in January 2013- no ovulation, no cycles for 3 months
May-July 2013- provera cycles with no ovulation
August/September 2013-50 mg clomid cycles with no ovulation
October 2013- SA revealed low motility--referred to RE
January 2014- DHs repeat SA came back "normal"! I was diagnosed with PCOS
February 2014- IUI #1 on Valentine's Day with 2 mature follicles- BFN
March 2014- BCP to clear up cysts
April 2014- IUI #2 on 4/9/14 with 3 mature follicles and 3 catching up! BFP at 10dpiui!!!!!! So thankful!!! Beta #1 @ 13 DPO- 167; Beta #2 @ 15 DPO- 384!

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