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July 5th, 2014, 02:30 AM
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I loved having my older 3 close together because they can be playmates.BUT having Isabel 5 years apart from my second youngest has been AWESOME. I love having just one baby to focus my baby-related attention on.
BUT then I think--awe, she's not going to have a sibling close to her age to play with.
I'm sorry this is probably not helpful. I feel like 2 years would still be too close to enjoy all that I want to with just 1, and I feel like 3 years borders on too far for them to be playmates, so like there's not real "perfect" spacing in terms of what I would want. However, babies can always have friends other than siblings, so I'm leaning toward slightly enjoying the big gap (years) best.
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