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October 21st, 2006, 12:34 PM
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DH and I have actually just been talking about it. yeah, our fam's are kind of pushy, so we agreed on at least four days, up to a week. We'll call them to let them know everything is fine, but then we are shutting the ringer off and hanging a do not disturb sign. With my first, I was "with" her father but we didn't live together, so the first weekend after she was born i wanted to be with him so bad, he came and got me and drove me three hours back to his folks house so everyone could see the baby, and it was all just too much. Way too much. New borns shouldn't have to do that. this time, everyone I NEED to see is right here in this house.. ALso, my three year old. i want her to welcome this baby and not feel pushed out by it. I think if there were lots of visitors who just come to see the baby, it would send the wrong message to her. We will have a week for us to bond as a family.
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