View Single Post
  #3  
November 19th, 2006, 05:59 AM
850williams 850williams is offline
Regular
Join Date: Nov 2006
Posts: 2
Quote:
HI, I know exactly how you feel, my second child was born a mnth ago and my fiance at first would always hear him cry at night and would get up with him, but now that it has set in and he is older he seems to just ignore his cries until I get up and get him. It is really annoying that they put it all on us... it also annoys me that they use the excuse "Oh i have been at work all day" I sit and think well I have been looking after the a 3 year old and a 1mnth old all day and yet u expect me to get up with them at night too...

So I know how you feel. What I am starting to do is, if its his turn to get up with the baby I will wake him up and tell him to get baby as you are tooo tired etc[/b]

My husband has been helpful pretty much. My lil girl was born a couple days ago ansd hes been supportvie. Thankfully the delivery was very easy and im in no pain. Except for the breast engorgement thing...OOOOWWWW! Anyways, he gets up and gets me water and pillows and stuff if i wake him up.
Reply With Quote