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September 11th, 2005, 09:40 AM
Marcy Marcy is offline
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Join Date: Sep 2005
Location: Washington
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I am so with you girls, but yet I feel so bad about it!. My DH has 2 boys from previous marriage. They are 8, 10.
They drive me crazy and stress me out too. I do love them though, I just wish it was different. I have such mixed feelings about things. I know it isn't their fault, they didn't choose this life but I did. Doesn't make it any easier though.
I do feel a little angry too, when I married my DH we only had the kids every other weekend. Now though, the Ex wants to give them to us fulltime.... I really don't want them but what can I say...??? I just feel like it isn't how it was supposed to be. I don't know if I can handle it. I don't know if our marriage can survive it. I am not even sure if it is the kids or the ex that irritates me so much. We pay her so much $$$ and then still have the kids all the time....grr!! We do have 1 son between us as well. I just feel like DH and I dont fight when it is just the 3 of us, but as soon as the kids come, everything changes...
I don't know.
How do you guys get through it? Does it really get better?
Would you make the same decisions again?
I love my DH but if I had a chance to do it again, I am not sure I would....
Wow! Thanks for letting me vent!!!