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August 23rd, 2007, 06:39 AM
Join Date: Jun 2006
Location: New York
I would be a hypocrite to agree with your sister, but honestly, when you have sooo many years ahead of you to have children, why do it so young? Enjoy being young...enjoy being free....enjoy life in general without any responsibilities.
i had my daughter young and i love her very much and do not regret having her, but sometimes i think man i should be able to be free right now, Im so young and it makes me wonder this when i see other girls my age just able to leave whenever, sleep whenever, etc etc
Any young girl who says like "i want a baby" or whatever I always say....no you dont. Watch Alexa for 24 hours you will get a reality check of how babies really arent just CUTE anymore... they're hard hard work. Its like a full time job you cant quit. Im not sure if my soapbox im on right now is going to make you think twice, but I really hope it does....
plain and simple, being a teen mom isnt glamorous. you shouldnt be jealous of us. we love our kids but can probably all say...its best to wait.
ok theres my lecture
ETA: I did get some lectures but by that time I was pregnant (unplanned) and I just ignored what people said and kept my head up. My point is...I would lecture a girl who said she wanted to get pregnant, but obviously a girl who IS pregnant, Im not going to make her feel like crap so I would just give her support.
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