Even though I didn't know the sex of my first I chose the bedding to be boy because in my heart I knew. His furniture didn't arrive until the day I went into labor. I am convinced he was waiting. I had my second nursery decorated before baby came and after that I just bought neutral. I didn't really do a proper nursery for either Gwen or Iz becasue we were wiht my parents and there really wasn't room. Wiht Ella I made a beautiful nursery months before she came and she never used it. No that we are in a smaller house her crib is in with her sister and it is still unused.