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Erin_0225 January 11th, 2013 06:19 PM

Announcement Flop
 
We were supposed to tell DH's family last week but the Christmas party got moved to this week because one of his cousin's had a basketball game tonight at a local highschool. They live 45 minutes away.

Well, we were late because I started babysitting this week and the mother was late and got caught in traffic. So, half of his family was leaving for the game when we pulled up. Once inside only his parents and sister were left. His Mom took DDs coat off and didn't notice her Big Sister shirt. I didn't make a big deal because I already felt like it was ruined. Then his Mom and step-dad left for the game. Finally, his sister noticed. She was super excited and his Dad was too. But then they all just started lecturing DH since I guess they felt they could since it was a more private party by this time. DH was really hurt. His sister and her boyfriend are only 19. A lot of things they had to say were right but it was not encouraging at all. I feel bad. DH is a selfish person but I have seen so much change in him. It's times like these that makes me think he will regress.

FL Mama January 11th, 2013 06:32 PM

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So sorry they weren't more understanding.

IvyMommy January 11th, 2013 06:39 PM

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I'm sorry they were not as excited. Don't let it get you down

Erin_0225 January 11th, 2013 06:41 PM

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They were excited about the baby. But they took the opportunity to beat down DH for every fault he has.

dansgirl January 11th, 2013 07:02 PM

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oh man :(

mirdeemrlvs January 11th, 2013 08:06 PM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Erin_0225 (Post 26963344)
They were excited about the baby. But they took the opportunity to beat down DH for every fault he has.

Sorry! That stinks!

ElliotsMommy13 January 11th, 2013 08:19 PM

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Sorry it wasn't more exciting!! Its horrible when family can't be there for you no matter what.

teeny0518 January 12th, 2013 04:26 AM

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Sorry to hear that :( Sometimes people just can't put themselves in another person's shoes.

PhD_Bound_Mommy January 12th, 2013 05:00 AM

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I'm sorry. That really stinks

BeachMum January 12th, 2013 06:33 AM

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Sorry it didn't go as planned :(

Jenilope January 12th, 2013 08:07 AM

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I'm sorry it didn't go like you hoped. What a bummer. :(


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