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IAmMomMomIAm January 27th, 2009 09:15 AM

Some people think that two is weird, some people think three is perfectly normal. How many middle names do you think is fine, and what's excessive?

Also, if you have a child with one middle name.. can the next one have three?

Shades of Grey January 27th, 2009 09:28 AM

I think it depends on why they have one, two, or three middle names. We do 2 middle names for family tradition. I would feel like im cheating one kid by giving him/her one, then the next child 2.

MidgeMadge January 27th, 2009 09:42 AM

I'm REALLY not for more than 1 middle name.

IAmMomMomIAm January 27th, 2009 09:43 AM

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I think it depends on why they have one, two, or three middle names. We do 2 middle names for family tradition. I would feel like im cheating one kid by giving him/her one, then the next child 2.[/b]
For me.. I want to name my her after a friend of mine, my husband wants to name her after a friend of his, and plus I like a third random name that he refuses to let me use as a first name. So if we did them all.. she'd end up as

Ariadne Morgan Clover Denise or
Madeline Morgan Clover Denise

I'm pretty sure that would be considered excessive, but I just can't choose one! :cry:

enchantingdragon January 27th, 2009 10:02 AM

For me I can't imagine using more then one. I feel like the name becomes too much and also I wouldn't be sure what to write on forms for middle name/initial.

I do think though if the 1st kid has 2/3 middle names you have to continue with the trend. It would look weirder if one child had 2 middle names and the other only had 1. I feel that way when some kids have middle names in a family and others done have a middle name at all. I like symmetry in that respect.

IAmMomMomIAm January 27th, 2009 10:08 AM

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I do think though if the 1st kid has 2/3 middle names you have to continue with the trend. It would look weirder if one child had 2 middle names and the other only had 1. I feel that way when some kids have middle names in a family and others done have a middle name at all. I like symmetry in that respect.[/b]
So if my son only has one middle name.. you would say the girl should only have one, as well?

MommaOnCloud9 January 27th, 2009 10:16 AM

Yeah, I'd say if your son has only one middle name to go with one middle name for your daughter. Having one child with 1 mn and another with 3 mns, that really looks out of balance. But then, lots of people do not even like sibsets. So, go with whatever you're comfortable with.

But, the two names you gave are quite a mouthful, especially when you attach the last name to them. Also, I do not care for 3 names back to back with 2-syllables each. You could always save 2 of the names if you have another daughter.



IAmMomMomIAm January 27th, 2009 10:38 AM

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Yeah, I'd say if your son has only one middle name to go with one middle name for your daughter. Having one child with 1 mn and another with 3 mns, that really looks out of balance. But then, lots of people do not even like sibsets. So, go with whatever you're comfortable with.

But, the two names you gave are quite a mouthful, especially when you attach the last name to them. Also, I do not care for 3 names back to back with 2-syllables each. You could always save 2 of the names if you have another daughter.[/b]
Well, we're not planning on having another kid.. if we want a third we're going to adopt, and they already come with names. So this would be it. =/ You see my dilemma.. haha

amazing_love January 27th, 2009 10:43 AM

I definitely prefer only one. TBH i've never even heard of more than one middle name..

wanting#2 January 27th, 2009 11:39 AM

I think any more than 2 is overkill. DS has only one but I have thought about giving the next one 2 middle names (if we can't agree). One the first middle name really goes on any paperwork, so it doesn't much matter. And it is a lot less confusing than not having a middle name at all.

LadyGamer January 27th, 2009 11:50 AM

We're doing two because its a family tradition on DH's side. I prefer one and definitely think that if your first has one, they all have one.

MamaBx3 January 27th, 2009 11:52 AM

I'm not a fan of more than 2 but honestly, Its what ever YOU want.

As for people not thinking it's right to give one child one middle name and the next one, two - they are individuals. They aren't suppose to match ;)
My first dd has 1 middle name and my next two have two. I'll let you know in a few years if she feels cheated ;)

Shades of Grey January 27th, 2009 11:59 AM

I have 2 middle names and on official paperwork I use the first one.

SK. January 27th, 2009 12:19 PM

Me & DF have a rule, because we both have large families & because we have different taste in names we each pick a middle name we want & then have a first name that we both like.

Logan is Logan Ashley Gerald. :smile:
Ashley after my cousin, Gerald after DF's uncle & Logan because we both liked it.
Although he only gets called Logan Ashley.

We plan to do the same with future children, but thats just what suits us

Ive never seen the problem with 2 middle names, a friend of mine has 4 middle names - which is personaly to much in my opinion.

Hopingfor1soon January 27th, 2009 12:28 PM

I really think it depends on your reasoning behind the names. I think any more than 2 middle names is excessive no matter the reason though. I think if you can choose 2 that honor people or have meaning behind them that is great, if not than maybe just choose 1 random name.

And as far as your son having 1 and the next having 2 middle names. I dont think it would ever be a problem or make them feel less important. I know a couple families where this is the case and there has never been an issue!! Good Luck though!!

.H.e.a.t.h.e.r. January 27th, 2009 02:14 PM

I have a friend with 9 middle names. I think her parents are weird.

Quiet-storm January 27th, 2009 02:31 PM

I think that three is alot. I have two middle names but I only use one. I have three other siblings and they all have only one middle name.

Miracle January 27th, 2009 02:47 PM

I prefer one or two. I love two middle names but DH didn't go for that so we gave our daughter one.

I_Run_with_Scissors January 27th, 2009 02:59 PM

one or two middle names is enough for me

both my sisters have 3 names one has a double first name the other has 2 middle names i only have a first and middle name i dont feel cheated the both my sisters drop one of the extra names anyways :P

twingirls52905 January 27th, 2009 06:43 PM

I say one or two max.


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