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stresswife July 31st, 2012 02:33 PM

she changes jobs like I change clothes.
 
okay maybe that's a bit over dramatic but seriously..
she had a job as a CNA, a good one .. she worked weekends so she could be at home with the kids during the school week well I guess with it being summer she got tired of missing out on weekend fun with the kids being gone and quit or something like three weeks ago, she started working at a restaurant and last night she told DH she was sick for three days so they put her down to 8 hrs this week and how she will probably need extra CS ..
I looked at her FB and she was tagged and post herself in pictures going to a carnival and an animal farm and the lake and a birthday party so I really don't think she was "sick"
why would you quit a good steady job when you claim you are barely making ends meet and then screw over the new job? especially when you live in a town of like 2500 people and there aren't many jobs at all...
and I could understand if this was the first time she has done this.. but its like just when she starts to be a responsible adult and get on her feet she does something and goes back to her old ways and does the same cycle all over again..

ugh
she is so stupid.

pickle0313 July 31st, 2012 02:35 PM

Re: she changes jobs like I change clothes.
 
I'm sorry. I'm sure this is frustrating for you. It's crappy that because of her irresponsibility she just expects to get more child support. It's not to support her, it's to HELP support the kids. I'm sorry you have to deal with this!

stresswife July 31st, 2012 07:59 PM

Re: she changes jobs like I change clothes.
 
it sucks because it's the kids that suffer and move around when she can't pay her bills.

Hollydawn August 1st, 2012 03:57 AM

Re: she changes jobs like I change clothes.
 
I understand this 100% BM left a good job as a barista to go work in a nail shop and 2 weeks later she was fired. then her BF just up and quit his job. so neither of them are working.

My2miracles August 1st, 2012 10:15 AM

Re: she changes jobs like I change clothes.
 
How irresponsible! And unfair to expect more child support.

Rachel August 1st, 2012 10:20 AM

Re: she changes jobs like I change clothes.
 
Sounds familiar, but not jobs (cause she doesn't have one at all), but boyfriends and houses. At least for us, the kids live here.

I'm sorry she's doing that to the kids and you guys!

Keakie August 1st, 2012 11:48 AM

Re: she changes jobs like I change clothes.
 
How irresponsible. :( I'm sorry. I would be hugely upset about that too. Some people have no concept of holding a job and working hard.

stucklikeglue August 1st, 2012 01:34 PM

Re: she changes jobs like I change clothes.
 
Sounds familiar! Bm1 is doing that here. Luckily we have their two children. I'm sorry you are going through this :(

Ember Rose August 1st, 2012 06:22 PM

Re: she changes jobs like I change clothes.
 
She feels like she's missing out. I know with BM1 she was just young and crazy. DH was young too (both under 16). So for a hot minute they were both like....wait what? With BM2...her family is controlling. A person could be nice but if he didn't make enough money her mom wouldn't watch M for her. Just wouldn't. If she thought a job wasn't good enough for her, then she wouldn't watch M so BM2 could go to an interview. So while she never left him alone, she brought a lot of people to the house she shouldn't have and she feels horrible about it now.

stresswife August 1st, 2012 07:52 PM

Re: she changes jobs like I change clothes.
 
Oh she changes Boyfriends even more frequently, everytime she has ever moved it was for a boyfriend and then immediately after they'd break up and she would be broke..
she's 28, I'm 23 and I'm 10 times more responsible than her.!

Ember Rose August 1st, 2012 08:24 PM

Re: she changes jobs like I change clothes.
 
Some people buck up when faced with adverse situations and some folks just buckle. And it sucks because there's kids involved who can't make a choice as to who their parents are.

K.A.T August 2nd, 2012 07:55 PM

Re: she changes jobs like I change clothes.
 
Sounds like she never grew up, and that's sad when you have kids to take care of.

w292737 August 8th, 2012 11:48 AM

Re: she changes jobs like I change clothes.
 
that's too bad. maybe there's more too it that she isn't sharing (I hope at least)


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