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  #21  
May 14th, 2008, 07:17 AM
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I hope I'm not outta place posting here, but you seem so sincere and I can really see your struggle with this, but I just wanted to tell you that if you ARE so torn, you should just really take your time and make 100% sure the decision you decide to make is the right one. Make sure you and your husband are on the same page and you both have the same wants about what to do.

PERSONALLY, I wouldn't do it. Especially since I'm like you, totally against abortion. And being a fellow 19 year old teen mom I can't give you enough of a pat on the back for already having a darling 3 year old. If nothing else, I would look to adoption first. If you were against abortion once then I truly don't think you will be the kinda person who would be able to come to terms with doing it yourself.

Regardless, I do believe everything happens for a reason and I am sure you will make the right decision for you, your husband and your little one(s), and nobody should judge you for what you choose.
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May 16th, 2008, 01:17 PM
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Hey sweetie, I know your appointment is a few days away, if you do decide to go through with it, pm rawisner for access to the abortion loss board, we're a great group of ladies, and we'll be there to answer any and all questions you may have, from after care, to dealing with the loss. I hope you're doing alright at the moment.... HUGS
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May 19th, 2008, 06:22 AM
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How are you holding up?

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May 23rd, 2008, 10:47 PM
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Thanks everyone for your posts =)

My appointment was post pone to this monday and I have made the decision to do it. It's the best thing right now. Thanks everyone!
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May 24th, 2008, 05:13 AM
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Hugs to you. Be sure to check out the abortion loss board for support afterward. It sounds like you're comfortable with your decision and that is so important.

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May 24th, 2008, 08:55 PM
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Hugs! I am sorry you have had to make such a hard and lonely choice. I will keep you in my prayers for a quick and easy recovery both physically and emotionally.
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June 18th, 2008, 04:59 PM
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You have the siggy that says 27 weeks till I'm born, and your inyour second trimester now... I guess you never had the abortion?? If you didn't, I hope you at least broke up with the manipulative bf!!... KUP!
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June 19th, 2008, 05:09 AM
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I have been wondering how you're doing. If you pop in leave a quick post! I hope all is okay with you.
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June 20th, 2008, 12:03 PM
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I always say do what is right for YOU. But let me tell you....terminating pregnancies stays with you FOREVER....could you handle that guilt?
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June 20th, 2008, 12:27 PM
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I do agree with you they do stay with you forever! And every yr that passes you think about it. Definantly a decision for each own person. Hope your doing fine
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June 20th, 2008, 09:30 PM
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Hello everyone i thought i would leave you a lil post. Well I went into the abortion clinic on June 12th to get it done. And they put the IV in me and brought me to the room...and the doctor looked in "there" with a speculum to see if everything is good. And they noticed something small on my cervix and he told me i had a cyst on my cervix! I couldn't believe my ears and I started to freak out and the nurses and doctor who were super nice told me not to worry that its common and it looks to be nothing serious not cancerous just make sure to follow up with my doc after 2 weeks to look more into it. So becuz of the cyst and that I was 11 weeks .5 pregnant they had to put this thing called "lamaria" up into my cervix to soften it so its easier to do the abortion and to do with infection. It was so painful and they had to send me home and come back the next day for the procedure. I was sure in some discomfort but i got through it. So next day I come back get another IV and they tell me to put some white pills on each side of my cheeks and let them dissolve to make my cervix even more softer. So They brought me into the room stuck the DRUGS into my IV. And I awake but so out of it. I dont remember a thing! The only thing I do remember is looking up and see the doctor with a jar and seeing pink. Which I pretended I did not see. But honestly i dont feel guilty for what I did. I feel it was 100% the right choice and I haven't really thought about the abortion since. I recovered so well hardly any bleeding..the next day I was @ home having a bbq. U may think I sound cold..but I know I could not have this baby and my life was so messed up with the ex.

Thanks everyone for ur concern. hugs.

Edit: sorry I seem to not make much sense I am super tired lol.
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June 21st, 2008, 08:04 PM
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I'm glad that you came back in to let us know how you're doing. I'm sorry that you had to go through all of that and that you're okay. It wasn't an easy decision, I'm sure, but you made the right one for you.

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June 22nd, 2008, 08:56 PM
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Just reading that made me grossed out. Though i respect any decision you decide. I wish you the best.
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June 24th, 2008, 10:31 PM
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I'm glad that you came back in to let us know how you're doing. I'm sorry that you had to go through all of that and that you're okay. It wasn't an easy decision, I'm sure, but you made the right one for you.

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June 26th, 2008, 07:45 AM
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Just reading that made me grossed out. Though i respect any decision you decide. I wish you the best.


Me too. That was rough. Not coming down on you at all, personally, I can't do it. Glad to know you are comfortable with your decision and you are doing well.
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June 26th, 2008, 02:30 PM
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Can I ask are you still with that father of your 3 yr old?
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June 27th, 2008, 04:38 PM
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No I am not with him anymore! Thank God~ I actually have a new bf now for one month and he is wonderful. Very accepting of my WHOLE situation.
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HUGE hugs to you!! Well, I don't believe in abortion so I would say that you should have the baby and give it up for adoption. There are SO SO many people out there that want to adopt. I have 3 girl friends right now that have been struggling to get pregnant and now have decided to adopt. Please think about it...the baby will really be a blessing to someone. I'm so sorry you are having a hard time!!!!!!! Hang in there.
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