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June 20th, 2008, 11:56 AM
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Brief backing- I have 2 daughters, 2 and 9....and pregnant with a third. I was feeling all out of sorts and have been furious with my husband for the past 2 weeks and today on my lunch break I took a test and the darn think was positiive before all the pee traveled up the entire stick.

This is not good news. My DH is NOT going to be supportive. We have been down this road and I ended up terminating the pregnany early on.

This is just going to break us. I know it.

I don't even know when I am due because I don't know when my last period was. In May sometime I presume...I was on the patch and I just don't know man...ugh.

My pharmacy told me I picked up my BC May 24th, I usually pick them up while I am on AF or the day before the patch change day so I guess that is the only refrence to a last monthly period.

I am so depressed. Not only that I have no health insurance. Oh yeah, I lost my job in April because of a technical issue, log story short I can't return to that job until October or November IF they even honor their word o hire me back. Who wants to hire the pregnant chick? No one that's who. Also, I have some temp job that I neer know is really going to end. I receive unemployment but who knows if I will even get that long.

We live in a 2 bedroom apartment with 2 kids and are cramped. I feel like we are drwoning and now this.

I don't even want to tell him.....

I can't get another abortion, I'd go postal, but I don't know if our marriage can take this.....
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June 21st, 2008, 12:09 PM
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I dont know if I can give you any advice. Maybe you could consiter adoption. I'm 19 and just found out yesterday thay we're having a baby, so I somwhat know how you feel. best of luck!
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June 21st, 2008, 05:17 PM
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First off I am sorry you are going through this. I really can not offer any advice. Except make the decision that is right for you and your family! Good luck hun!
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June 22nd, 2008, 05:19 AM
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You poor doll! There is far too much going on in your life now. I'll give you the same advise my mom gace me, these things happen for a reason. I too had a number 3 that defied all the odds and I was miserable when I found out. Now I wouldn't give him back for the world. But I had a supportive husband, unlike yourself.

I would just try and be honest and tell him, see if you can nut a few things out. Good luck and let us know how you go.
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June 22nd, 2008, 06:03 PM
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Now I wish I read this first. This was the explaination I was looking for.


are you happy with him outside of babies and pregnancies?

If you do not want to abort then you should not have to abort. It might make things difficult for a while but the most important thing here is being able to live in your own skin.

Where are you from. We have medicare in Canada. But your mentioning insurance so I believe that makes you American and there is medicaid and wic for people who need help. Now I do not know this for fact because I don't live there.

You don't have to see the doctor for a while anyways. If you are a month along and thats what it
is looking like your good to go with out until you are 12 weeks. At which point you should really see someone.

While I have not been in that predicament I have had that burning " oh crap" feeling before. Makes it hard to get up in the morning.



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June 22nd, 2008, 06:08 PM
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Thank you for being so understanding...I am pretty determined to tell him this evening when he gets home from work...hopefully things don't go too bad.

I'll update for sure. It is so surreal..I don't feel pregnant I just feel like I am in a permanent daze.
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June 22nd, 2008, 06:09 PM
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I do want to reinterate Mel's advice for government assistance. I have taken advantage of WIC myself, and I know there are many other services that you could use.

I hope everything works out for you and your DH. We are definitely thinking of you.
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June 22nd, 2008, 06:15 PM
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yes we are. We hope the best for you. Tho getting there may take some work.

Good luck. I am behind you all the way.
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June 22nd, 2008, 09:09 PM
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Im so sorry dear!!! HUGE HUGSS!!!!!
i say do whats best for you & ur family. I really hope DH will be understanding..after all it does take 2 to make a baby!!!!
I wish you the best.. try to take it easy HUGGGGGGGSSSS!!!!!!!!!
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