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June 27th, 2008, 07:49 AM
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OK, *breathe*

I am UBER paranoid right now. I took 4 Dollar Tree HPTs and they all were positive. Now I am reading about false positive batches! OMG OMG OMG

OK, I haven't had a period since the end of April, the M/S is off the hook! My boobs are slightly tender, I have gained weight, I've got that extra discharge, mild cramping off and on for weeks, sleepiness, hunger and round in my tummy!, definite preggers symptoms.

I know, I'm prolly just freaking out because my OB appt is at 1:30, but OMG. His sister keeps saying to calm down...we all now I am....

This is an especially sensitive issue since his ex faked her pregnancy last fall...there is a LONG backstory to all of this, that spans nearly 10 years...which I can and might write a book about...really!

My other dilemma is this...

Originally I planned to have his sister with me during my first appt since he refuses to go (and I wanted her there for support....and a witness, since he's in denial)....I wasn't sure if my mom was going to be around for the appt, but now she is and she's taking me to the appt, his sister is meeting me there.

I really would like to have them both there when it's confirmed. Is that unreasonable? Mom is mom and his sister and I are really close.
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June 27th, 2008, 09:08 AM
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OK, *breathe*

I am UBER paranoid right now. I took 4 Dollar Tree HPTs and they all were positive. Now I am reading about false positive batches! OMG OMG OMG

OK, I haven't had a period since the end of April, the M/S is off the hook! My boobs are slightly tender, I have gained weight, I've got that extra discharge, mild cramping off and on for weeks, sleepiness, hunger and round in my tummy!, definite preggers symptoms.

I know, I'm prolly just freaking out because my OB appt is at 1:30, but OMG. His sister keeps saying to calm down...we all now I am....

This is an especially sensitive issue since his ex faked her pregnancy last fall...there is a LONG backstory to all of this, that spans nearly 10 years...which I can and might write a book about...really!

My other dilemma is this...

Originally I planned to have his sister with me during my first appt since he refuses to go (and I wanted her there for support....and a witness, since he's in denial)....I wasn't sure if my mom was going to be around for the appt, but now she is and she's taking me to the appt, his sister is meeting me there.

I really would like to have them both there when it's confirmed. Is that unreasonable? Mom is mom and his sister and I are really close.[/b]
If you have not had a period since April, I'd think it is a safe bet that you are pregnant.
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June 27th, 2008, 09:22 AM
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I think that it is a safe bet that you are pregnant as well. I also think that if you want them both there then have them there! Since your BF flaked its great that you have your mom and his sister for support!
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June 28th, 2008, 08:42 AM
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Thanks Ladies!

Yes, I am officially going to be a mommy. Just had a moment of panic there! I went for my bloodwork today and I'm going for my ultrasound monday! I am sooo excited...and relieved!

And yes, I was able to have my mom and his sister with me and what a comfort they both are sionce he's being such a jerk.
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Thanks Ladies!

Yes, I am officially going to be a mommy. Just had a moment of panic there! I went for my bloodwork today and I'm going for my ultrasound monday! I am sooo excited...and relieved!

And yes, I was able to have my mom and his sister with me and what a comfort they both are sionce he's being such a jerk.[/b]
I am so glad things turned out well! I cant wait to see the u/s pictures!
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Thanks Ladies!

Yes, I am officially going to be a mommy. Just had a moment of panic there! I went for my bloodwork today and I'm going for my ultrasound monday! I am sooo excited...and relieved!

And yes, I was able to have my mom and his sister with me and what a comfort they both are sionce he's being such a jerk.[/b]
I am so glad things turned out well! I cant wait to see the u/s pictures!
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Thanks! I am going today, can't wait to post them!
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Thanks Ladies!

Yes, I am officially going to be a mommy. Just had a moment of panic there! I went for my bloodwork today and I'm going for my ultrasound monday! I am sooo excited...and relieved!

And yes, I was able to have my mom and his sister with me and what a comfort they both are sionce he's being such a jerk.[/b]
I am so glad things turned out well! I cant wait to see the u/s pictures!
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Thanks! I am going today, can't wait to post them!
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Here's my little bean!

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