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Hi all, I went to the DR yesterday for my first appt, and it seems that my dates are off (by a month or so), which pretty much means, my baby may have stopped developing some time back. The doctor only measured me manually (no u/s), so I still have a teeny bit of hope left. Maybe he was just wrong, and ultrasound may indicate differently, however I may not have an u/s done for another week, which is just insane! I did have bloodwork done yesterday, so maybe blood levels may be able to show something. Im freaking out. I most certainly was not prepared for another baby right now, and the whole idea was driving me nuts, but in no way did I want this baby to stop existing. It gets me so sad to think about a loss. Im already a mother of 2 kids, with this one gone, I feel a part of me is missing, a part of the family is just gone. Its so crazy. Im so sad. I hope things take another turn, but I have a bad feeling. With what the doctor told me yesterday, and my lack of symptoms, things dont look positive.
I know how scary this must be for you. When I first got pregnant I had bleeding and even passed a clot. Had a few u/s's and they didnt see anything. But here I sit almost to my 3rd trimester. I had my dates off as well by about 2 weeks or so. I wish you nothing but the best. When do they expect your blood results to be in?