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August 22nd, 2008, 08:04 PM
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I have no friends here, SO is at a rock concert and is gonnaleave for a whole week for a surf trip..

Even here, on this board... alone...

I need support.. a need people to talk to..
I'm going crazy...
If only SO would hug me, and tell me that everything is gonna be ok..

I have no real shoulder to cry on...

I'm feeling so depress... I'm starting to think that my life has no value...
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August 22nd, 2008, 08:53 PM
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Hi I'm Katie. I am always up for talking to someone. Mine might be in a little different way but I also feel alone. So how far along are you?
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August 22nd, 2008, 09:08 PM
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I'm 4 week 5 days...
Almost the same as you..
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August 22nd, 2008, 09:18 PM
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I realized after I wrote that you had a time line of that.
SSo how is your SO taking things? That is actaully why I feel so alone. My husband I dont think is doing so weel with this idea. He doesnt talk to me much and always seems like he is in a bad mood or angry. I know not at me but I am just very scared, that this is going to hurt what we have since we were going to wait several more years for a baby. Truthfully he seems to be happier and perkier about this when we are around other peoplerather than just me.
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August 22nd, 2008, 09:34 PM
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mine is very upset..
He doesn't want this baby at all..
He still let me take the decision, and he will be there whatever I chose... but still...

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August 22nd, 2008, 09:48 PM
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mine is very upset..
He doesn't want this baby at all..
He still let me take the decision, and he will be there whatever I chose... but still...[/b]
Wow. I guess I am lucky that, decision was never an option. We both knew we would keep it no matter what but he really wishes it hadnt happened. It is our first and is just so difficult to think so far I feel like I'm going through this alone. HE said hell come to whatever appts I want and be there so he was at first trying to be supportive but that was at first and he just says nothing now.
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August 22nd, 2008, 09:52 PM
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August 22nd, 2008, 10:10 PM
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Yes Jodi ..

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August 22nd, 2008, 10:20 PM
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Im sorry you ladies are feeling so alone. I know with our 1st DH was terrified. He had a really rotten childhood and didnt know how that would affect him towards his own children. We always talked about having children but a few years down the road. David came almost 9 months after our wedding. He is an amazing father but the idea did take some getting use to. Especially with our first. With our 2nd he was a little more shocked than anything. But is more into the pregnancy this time around. I really hope you ladies feel better about all of this adn your SOs come around. I know that arfter our first u/s is when things really turned around for us! Big hugs ladies!
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August 22nd, 2008, 10:24 PM
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Thanks. I know things will probably change and he will come around its just in the meantime I am so almost depressed, feeling like (since hes acting so angry) that I did something wrong or that its because of me he's angry.
I am at home but I just want to cry it seems like all the time.
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August 22nd, 2008, 10:49 PM
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OMG taatie I feel the same way!! like if I did something wrong.. like if because I carry the baby, it's my fault..

I'm going to bed earlier tonoght only because I'm so depressed and I just want this day to be over..

big hug!!
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August 22nd, 2008, 11:17 PM
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Aww you ladies just need the biggest hug ever!!! HUGS HUGS HUGS!!
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August 23rd, 2008, 12:21 AM
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Aww you ladies just need the biggest hug ever!!! HUGS HUGS HUGS!![/b]
I am doing better now. My hsband and I talked. It involved me crying alotand him a little. He isnt angry but hes not happy about this. HE is frustrated and he doesnt know what. SO it helped me and I think him. I am atleast now aware at where he stands on this whole baby thing. It is sad that he isnt happy and excited about this but hopefully will come to be that way soon.
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August 23rd, 2008, 01:18 AM
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Aww you ladies just need the biggest hug ever!!! HUGS HUGS HUGS!![/b]
I am doing better now. My hsband and I talked. It involved me crying alotand him a little. He isnt angry but hes not happy about this. HE is frustrated and he doesnt know what. SO it helped me and I think him. I am atleast now aware at where he stands on this whole baby thing. It is sad that he isnt happy and excited about this but hopefully will come to be that way soon.
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Im sure he will come around. It can be scary for first time fathers. I think its more of the fear of the unknown. I hope things start looking up hun!
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August 23rd, 2008, 05:30 AM
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Sorry to hear you girls are feeling this way and it upset me to read these posts. I found that after teh scan and teh baby became a reality he was more into it. Now we look back and say what were we ever worried about!
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August 23rd, 2008, 08:02 AM
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I'm happy for you taatie, hopefully everything is gonna be alright!
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